I offer a lot; we all do. I don't write self help books; no one does. Like many things we assume, that is an oxymoron. It is like saying a movie made you cry. 'No, you allowed the movie to influence you in to crying. You did it from start to finish.'
We make ourselves do everything we do, and we can all make ourselves see and do a lot more, by dealing with 'our selves'; our humanity.